The writer indicates that though many adversities feel as if they can be the end of the world and impossible to move on from, that is not the case. Obstacles can change a person in a way they cannot return to the original form, but this is not always going to be a bad thing. The author shows a personal example by saying, “I will live with the duct tape covering all of those holes in my soul”("My Life As a Water Balloon" 20). This shows that regardless of what one goes through, it is always possible to move on. It may seem as if moving on is unimaginable, but there will be a way to do it. The author uses duct tape as his/her way of repair after a tragic experience. He/she later says, “So that person sobbing in the corner won’t be me”("My Life As a Water Balloon" 26). This is another way in which the author shows progression and change after going through something