Her irritation is the result of her constant need for complete control, since only under her direction can the things around her remain truly fixed and secure; the text articulates, “It was only that she wanted him to be happy, resenting, however, his inability to be so with things as they were, and never acknowledging that though she did want him to be happy, it was only in her own way and by some plan of hers for him that she truly desired him to be