1.3 When dealing with disagreements between children and young people you need to find out exactly what has happened from the beginning. You should listen to each child’s version of what has taken place and make sure they know you are not taking sides. When everyone has had their say and you have come to the conclusion who was in the wrong, if anybody. Then you need to decide if apologies are required and if any further action needs to be taken. It is then best to explain to the child why what they did was