I was very young when they first separated so the actual separation did me no harm. It was when I got older and realized something that made it hard for me. I was older and started to do stuff with other families go out to eat, shopping , and more. That is when I realized something, all my friends families had both their parents with them and they were happy. It is not that my family was unhappy it just seemed incomplete to me now. I noticed how much harder my mom worked. My mother supported all of my siblings and I and put her all into doing so. I saw all the weight she carried and wanted to take the weight away from her. That is when I saw an obstacle that I had to face. How am I going to lift this burden from my mom. I stopped sitting there sad and decided I am going to learn from this. I decided that day that I would this burden from her , I also learned that if I ever planned on having a relationship with children I will stay and support them no matter what. Watching the act of unfaithful and watching someone struggle made me want to be faithful, smart and work …show more content…
I thought, “surround yourself with like minded people” that is what everyone says to do. Then I came across another issue. This issue being able to find good people to surround myself with. This may not seem like an obstacle to most people. I thought on the matter really hard and realized that you are the people you hang out with. I realized if you have plans of doing something the people you surround yourself with have to have to same mindset, the same goal, the same aspirations. These thought did not matter when the simple resolution was to talk to them and tell them that what they are doing is wrong. The moment I decided to speak my mind my friends slowly