There was never a single moment where I felt like an outsider in his family. Maybe that was because I had an early head start and his sister Tereasa was my neighbor and her son Chase had been my playmate for years, but it felt like more than that. It had to of been more than that because it was so easy for Tereasa to no longer be called my neighbor but to be called my aunt, and for Chase to be my cousin. To Cody's parents I became their granddaughter and they became my grandparents, which no effort at all I had a brand new family. The lesson in that is huge, that family isn't just blood. Family is filled of all the people in your life, people who are flawed and challenging but you keep them there and you love them and remain loyal to them because no matter what the circumstances, they are family. I got so lucky that I was integrated into such a loving and gracious group of