If I were in a state where treatment was statistically unlikely to result in a cure I would choose to forgo treatment and spend my remaining time with my loved ones uncomplicated by rigorous treatment schedules. I have had the end of life conversation with my mother and husband and they tend to disagree with my plans. Their arguments typically entail me being young and that research will continue to advance as I age. They also wonder if my decision would change once I become a mother. I wonder the same thing but since I am not guaranteed children I can’t decide based on possibilities. With regards to cancer I have seen the toll treatments such as radiation and chemotherapy take on the mind and body and I would prefer to receive comfort measures instead. My past experiences have made an influence on my own end of life