Over the years my resilience personality has guided me through difficult situations such as the passing of my father, getting injured before my senior year of basketball, and failing my first major test. Resilience to me is the ability to hit an obstacle and continue to get up and push through. Everyone has resilience it just takes you to be in the right situation to make you get out of your comfort zone which will make you want to push even harder.
When I was twelve years old, my dad pasted away from a heart attack. It was right after school he called me and told me he was on the way to pick me up from my mom’s house. I was waiting for him to call me so I was watching T.V. I heard my mom get a phone call …show more content…
It didn’t hit me at first but I tried to understand it all but I couldn’t. I couldn’t come to realization. So that whole day I was a strong support system for my family. I felt as if I had to set an example for them to follow me. Even though they didn’t want to go to school the next day. I went to show them that you should keep pushing even when it’s hard. I went to school everyone was telling me sorry and everything and I appreciated it. I really wanted to get back to school though I didn’t want anyone to treat me special because he passed away. I didn’t want an excuse to just get free grades. I wanted to work for those grades because I know that my dad would have been upset if I took the easy way out because of him. “most people with resilience have had a traumatic or negative life event that made them feel vulnerable. Which cause them to …show more content…
I had to get a good grade on it. I studied so hard and pushed myself to get a better score. When I received my score back I got a 60%. I studied so hard for this test. I honestly could say that I was beaten. I didn’t want to try any more I just wanted to give up and not try anymore.” Resilience isn’t all what it is casted out to be” (Sehgal) said in his article. I don’t believe that because I feel like resilience is that extra push that your body gives you that tells you to keep pushing. I had to see if there were better ways to study. If I was just studying the wrong material. I just needed a helping hand to pull me out of the mud and I went to an old teacher of mine at NAU. She told me I’m happy you came to me and didn’t give up because I would never want you to. She pointed me in the direction of tutors and all the other people that could help me understand Biology better. I am so happy to know that when I am struggling someone is there for me. Resilience is really a strong power that the brain has. The ability to find ways around obstacles that are in your life stopping you succeeding to your goals. I believe that everyone has resilience and that it doesn’t have to come from you being in a traumatic event it just takes you believing in yourself. That you can overcome this obstacle if you really want to don’t just accept your grade and move on try and figure out how you can do