In summer of 1992, after receiving my K-12 public education within a single school district in West Virginia, my love of adventure and exploring nature led me 1,700 miles northwest to rural northern Wisconsin. I remember looking forward to the challenge of being immersed in a vastly different place and culture from that of my experience, and isolated from the safety net of a quick trip home. I wondered how I’d deal with it.
Debbie, on the other hand, had moved numerous times between her dad’s duty stations in several different states and South Korea, and had already volunteered on an Earthwatch trip to Chile before she headed to Northland from suburban Georgia in 1994. Given her general aversion to the cold and dark …show more content…
Her extracurricular pursuits were somewhat limited, however, with a general lack of interest in anything that happened after 10:00 p.m. Through the matrix of social interactions, campus events, and the magic of Townhouse gatherings, we became “an item” in the winter of 1996. I graduated that spring, and Debbie carried the torch for two more years.
Our relationship, both the Northland years and those since, has been the most real example of what Northland means to us. The academic piece is extremely important and lasting, but the most useful parts of our college experience have been the lessons gained through the broader experiences: The best way to gain new perspective is by talking with people different from yourself. When it’s time to make an important decision, gain perspective as well as information then make the decision and stick to it. If it seems risky to do the thing that will fulfill you, don’t worry, it’s worth