When I decided that I wanted to spend my summer down in Bloomington to work and study for my upcoming MCAT test, I brought up the idea of getting a car to my parents. With fewer friends around to rely on for rides, as well as the fact that I would want to make the 4 hour drive back home several times during the summer, I felt like …show more content…
My family went through very difficult times during the economic collapse of 2008 in which my father was unemployed for almost a full year. I understand why big purchases like that are unnerving. It was hard for me because he broke a promise. It hurt because I had an expectation built up and it suddenly disappeared. I tried to explain that with no good forms of transportation, I would be limiting the places I could work. I had no way to get groceries. It would harder to visit friends who lived across town. "Ride your bike," he responded. Classic dad.
It really upset me, but I didn't really talk about it much with friends as I didn't want to come off as someone who feels that they are entitled to have a car bought for them. So I spent my summer biking to work at 6 am in the rain, walking 1.5 miles in the sweltering heat carrying bags of groceries back to my apartment, and mooching rides off of friends. I didn't complain. I knew it wasn't the first time I've had a disagreement with my father about his (lack of) spending, and I'm sure it won't be the