“One downside of open adoption, Pertman says, is the potential for feelings of insecurity to crop up in adoptive parents (does she love her birth mother more than me?)” (Helland 1).Too much access can create issues within the relationship with the adoptive parents and the adoptive child and issues between the adopted child and the biological parent/s. This theory is proven by negative health effects and emotional effects children have developed. Too much access can cause the child’s growth to be hindered, can sever the relationship between adoptive parents and the child, and it can cause anxiety, trauma and other negative effects. Adoption, once finalized had relinquished all parental rights to the adoptive parents and while some access can be valuable and helpful it should not under any under circumstance be legally