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10 Signs It's Time to Quit Your Band
By David Hooper
Oct 12, 2008
Quitting your band is one of the hardest decisions you'll ever make. You've devoted time, money, and your heart and soul in to this group. Every band sees some trouble from time to time, and you don't want to be a weenie and quit just because someone used your guitar pick to clean their teeth. But there may be a time when you have to seriously consider if being in your band is still in line with your personal goals.
Here's a list of things that may serve as red flags.
1. You don't feel inspired any more.
Music is art. If you don't have the inspiration …show more content…
Another one brings his girlfriend to practice and they spend twenty minutes making out on the sofa. The drummer's cell phone rings three times and he insists he can't turn it off because he's waiting for his roommate to call him with the game score. It is pretty clear that no one is taking things seriously. When people don't take practice seriously, it is a clear indication that the creative energy is low, or worse, non-existent. If your efforts to keep things on track are met with continued lackadaisical attitudes by the other members--it's probably time to find another home for your …show more content…
It's actually healthy to have some disagreement and dialog in the creative process. But if there is regular conflict between members of the band, the negative energy is only going to stifle the creative process. Not to mention it's a pain in the ass for everyone else to have to set aside practice time only to have it turn into a bad reality television show. If the conflicted members are not interested in resolving their issues, there is only so far you'll ever be able to go as a band.
4. Creativity has come to a standstill.
You may have had a good couple years. Maybe you've recorded a disc and played a series of shows with success. You've built your name in the community and have a following. But now, there's nothing new and you feel like you're rehashing the same old same old stuff during practice. There needs to be a serious discussion in the band about new material. If you're not constantly creating new music, you might as well be a cover band. If it's not happening here, then you might want to find another outlet.
5. You feel that your contributions are being ignored--or