I do realize the need to step in and confront at times with REBT; however, I would like to use this only as needed. My hope is I would be able to guide a client into a place where they realize the irrationality of the belief systems they have set up. Moreover, REBT does not believe a warm relationship with the therapist is necessarily a requirement for healing to happen (Corey, 2007). Trust is what lays the foundation for therapy to happen in my opinion, and I am unsure effective therapy can happen without a warm and trusting relationship between the client and therapist.
Nonetheless, at the core of REBT is the conviction I share regarding where problematic behaviors and emotions come from: subconscious belief systems which we have unwittingly created (Corey, 2007). Therapists using this theory are not satisfied attacking symptoms; instead, they are aiming for what is lying beneath the surface. Furthermore, REBT maintains a highly realistic view of change and the work it takes to experience growth (Dryden & David, 2008). Finally, the process of disruption parallels perfectly my belief of awareness/insight’s role in the healing