Back then, this idea was absolutely revolting and looked down upon by everyone. Nowadays, the thought of an affair is a common one. Throughout time, the difference between patriarchal societies of the past and present share some similarities but are also dramatically different. Looking through the feminist lens, these differences ultimately show how the relationships between man and woman have evolved and changed over time, you can see this through calixta's experience in the storm and through Chopin's background story. When Kate Chopin wrote her short story “The Storm” the affair was considered unacceptable but in today’s society her story is considered a work of art or a masterpiece. During the time Chopin’s thinking was a new age of thinking. She used the old look for a patriarchal society but made it darker and more exciting for woman. “...her lips seemed in a manner free to be tasted, as well as her round, white throat and her whiter breasts” (151). You can see the physical side of the relationship between the genders throughout.