After a certain period of time things start to lose their meaning. I understand that 9/11 was a gigantic catastrophe for the United States and it will never be forgotten but the people who lost loved ones or colleagues need time to heal. I know someone who was supposed to be on the 13 floor of the first tower on September 11, 2001. She was sick and had to send two of her closest friends and colleagues to fill in for her at the meeting. To this day she can’t forget what happened. She says that it’s her fault that they died and that she would do anything to bring them back. She said she wishes she could be where they are now. At the time she didn’t have a husband or any children and one of the people she sent in her position just had a baby girl. For the first ten years after 9/11 many people attended the ceremonies recognizing the victims that were killed in the terrorist attack. After the first ten years people stopped going to the big ceremonies held every year. Some