I would have to agree and say that the three concepts for self-authorship are epistemological:trusting the internal voice, intrapersonal: building an internal foundation, and interpersonal: securing internal commitments (Magdola, 2008, p.279) I think for me to trust my internal voice, I would need to see things in a different perspective. I think right now I am low on self-authoritative because I tend to believe authoritative figures. Instead I shall look at life and situations differently, for example, when an authoritative figure tells me something, I should think about it more than just accepting what they tell me, whether it is right or wrong. I should think if the statement they said could be true and if not, do further research myself. I need to develop my own internal beliefs. As for the interpersonal perspective, I need to open up more with the relationships that come in my life. These should be authentic relationships and even though I am trying to engage in them, I should not seek for approval from them. I need to learn how to create relationships that are beneficial to me and those involved and well as taking into consideration what they say. This does not necessarily mean that I will be swayed by what they say. Lastly, for the intrapersonal perspective, I think I do a good job at knowing who I am. I may not know where life will take me, but I know my own value and I have created my own identity through experiences and choices just like how the course …show more content…
I will need to engage with people that are not like me, but have the same mindset of doing something with their lives. I will also need to stop being friends with people that are not striving to be someone in life and are content with their life. I am someone that cannot settle, and even if that means losing friends, so be it. I think I would first talk to these people and ask them with their life goal is. If they say something that is not near how I want to live my life, I will advice them on what they can do. I would give them the advice of getting an education, if they can do it financially, if not to look at other alternatives. If with all the advice I give them, they still do not listen and care to be a couch potato, then I will tell them that I valued our friendship but now it is time to part ways. I cannot be friends with someone that will bring me down, I need to be around those with the same mindset as me. The day I have accomplished everything I wanted and make my mom proud that I am her daughter will be the day I have reached self-authorship. On a scale of 1-10, I would be at a 5 because I am still half way done with school and have not started my career, but it does not mean that I am anywhere near from quitting. This is just the