This lead to conflicts in their marriage, which lead to outrageous arguments, which also lead to them not talking for days, refusing to talk about the issue, and just waited until they got over it. In chapter nine, I learned about the responses to conflict, and from the information she gave me, I think Sandra, and her first husband were visible examples of an exit (psychological) response. An exit (psychological) response is when you refuse to talk about the issue, or don’t address the problem, and try to avoid it because they assume nobody can benefit from the conflict which is a lose-lose orientation, so why try. As time went by in Sandra’s life, she married two more times, and she quoted that her conflict skills increased since her first marriage. She tries not to argue as much, and actually try to talk about the conflict loyalty response instead of just walking away, and avoiding it. When I asked her if she thinks relationships would be better if people solved their conflicts individually instead of sharing them with their relational partner, her response was “well sometimes you can’t if it involves your significant