An-Mei Hsu learns at a young age that she needed to honor others. At that young age, her grandmother became very ill. An-Mei watches her mother cut her own flesh off of her arm and put it in the soup to heal her sickly grandmother, Popo. An-Mei knows that …show more content…
One day, An-Mei’s mother journeyed across the world to pick up An-Mei and bring her home along with her. An-Mei’s mother has a son there too. However, she could not bring him home too, because he was a boy: “My mother did not dare take my brother. A son can never go to somebody else’s house to live. If he went, he would lose any hope for a future” (Tan 245-246). On the other hand, An-Mei had the choice of leaving because her future will be decided for her. After An-Mei left her aunt’s to go live with her mother, she witnesses massive amounts of sexism. Everday, An-Mei watched the women around the house get ordered around by Wu Tsing. Wu Tsing's five wives had no choice but to do what he told them to do. An-Mei’s mother came to live with Wu Tsing because his second wife tricked An-Mei’s mother into staying the night so that Wu Tsing could sleep with …show more content…
Three years later, after hiding her shame of Wu Tsing’s wealth in Teintsin, An- Mei’s mother gave birth to a son who was taken from her by Second Wife: “And that is how I learned that the baby Syaudi was really my mother’s son, my littlest brother” (Tan 268). An-Mei not only experienced sexism, but she also watched sexism against her mother.
Being strong is not always the easiest thing to do, but An-Mei knew that at times, being strong was her only option. At the age of four, An-Mei got a very serious burn on her neck from a boiling pot of soup that spilt. Her grandmother, Popo, would sit by her bed at night to help her get to sleep:
“Every night I would cry so that both my eyes and my neck burned. Next to my bed sat Popo. She would pour cool water over my neck from the hollowed cup of a large grapefruit. She would pour and pour until my breathing became soft and I could fall asleep. In the morning, Popo would use her sharp fingernails and tweezers and peel off the dead membranes” (Tan