At the start of the book, Shabanu and Phulan were being raised and ‘trained’ to be proper women in a marriage. The priority in raising them was to prepare them for a successful marriage that they would enjoy. In the middle of the book, Shabanu and Phulan are starting to get excited for their marriages. But at the end of the book, Shabanu’s excitement for her marriage is destroyed, as she is the one being sacrificed to keep the family safe. All of her dreams and things that she wants in a marriage don’t matter anymore. Her opinion and feelings were never considered. She was forced to take the back seat. Suzanne Fisher Staples develops gender and how women, their needs, and their wants are not as important as