You learn your basic rules and what is acceptable and what is not by them. If you had a troublesome childhood then you might be more likely as an adult to have anxieties over certain circumstances that remind you of your childhood. Your childhood constructs how you will be as an adult. If a kid is loved and respected by parents, he or she later assumes that other people treat them in the same way. However, if a child is often criticized, it prevents him or her from developing a sense of personal value, and for such people it is more difficult to become confident in social