Social Norms Of Divorce

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The divorce rate in American society has significantly grown since the 1970s. It has become one of the largest social problems that our society faces today, and has almost become a social norm. Divorce is defined as the action or instance of legally dissolving a marriage. According to our reading, the divorce rate has gone from 4 million Americans divorcing in 1970 to 27 million in 2015. That is a significant increase, proving that divorce has become a social norm. Researchers suggest that changes in divorce laws, female labor force participation, reproductive technology, and selection into marriage may be responsible for some of the differences in divorce rates. I have chosen this social problem because it has affected my life greatly, …show more content…
In fact, I do this with everything in life, as I believe it is better to attempt to see everyone’s point of view rather than being partisan in any topics. It was a trying time for my entire family. My brothers had both already moved out and I was sixteen, trying to figure out where I fit in the world and my home life was a disaster. My parents where bitter toward each other. At first my mother moved out and I stayed with my father in our family home. My father seemed to stop caring as time passed; he stopped paying the mortgage on the house, as well as other things. He blamed everything on my mother being an alcoholic. However, in the time following their separation I came to find that my father was indeed a narcissist and was the key reason (or excuse, it depends on how one looks at it) to my mother’s drinking. For the first sixteen years of my life I thought of myself, as did everyone else, as a daddy’s girl. I could not understand why my mother would put us through such craziness. I then came to see my mother’s point of view. I was sixteen working as much as I could, going to school, and paying the bills. My father turned into a person I did not know. He got a new girlfriend moved to a different town and made me out to be a drug addict and alcoholic teenager, which was not the case at all. My mother knew all along that was not the case, and urged me to move in with her. …show more content…
They should not prolong the process and stay together for the kids. Often, staying together does more damage than the parents going their separate ways. Divorce is a hard pill to swallow. People lose themselves and their families in the mist of the chaos. Though it was not socially acceptable for the better portion of the 1900s, it has become a common occurrence in our society. The divorce rates vary from culture to culture, depending on people’s beliefs. As human service professionals, there is a great advocacy role to be played. We can advocate for both the individuals and their children. I can work to create awareness and teach others about diversity and multiculturalism by first learning as much as I can on the topics. By doing so, I can in turn help individuals that need it due to divorce. In cases that I was unable to help them, I would be able to direct them and advocate for them to find the necessary means to help their situation. Educating people about diversity and multiculturalism would have a great impact on