Start Talking Back Book Report

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The book I chose to read was called, “How to Stop Backing Down & Start Talking Back”, by Lisa Frankfort. The book was organized with fifty, two page chapters that each quickly explained different aspects of communication, and easy ways to master them. The set up made it a fun read, and that fact that it was somewhat humorous made it even better. There were many different ideas in the book, but the main goal for the author could boil down to trying to get everyone to be more assertive in all aspects of life. One of the beginning chapters made an analogy of the Goldilocks and the three bears story, with three different styles; passive, aggressive, and assertive. Assertiveness is what the author longs for everyone to have, she explains, “The Assertive style is just right. Like the warm mush, assertiveness nourishes your soul by allowing you to express your true opinions” (13). If the reader only takes away one thing from this whole book, it should be the truth that being an assertive person is what everyone should strive to be, because it can be incorporated into all parts of …show more content…
I am getting a little better at it, but when people use to give me compliments I would not know what to say or I would feel obligated to give them a compliment right back. Even though I have been working at this and have been getting better at it, there is still much room for me to improve. Frankfort suggests, “Genuine compliments are a way to form a connection. When you refuse a compliment, you are rejecting that connection” (106). When I think I am being humble for rejecting a complaint, I am really hurting the person by not accepting a verbal gift, so by accepting these compliments I can improve my relationships with others. The next time someone gives me a compliment, instead of finding a way to ignore it, I am simply going to say thank you and give a nice