Likely, he seems to understands his father and uncle’s intentions and that contrary to the older males justifications. It might just meant that his father and uncle’s only wanted him to be toughen up. But then the boy is captured and dunked over and over again in the metal drum, a demand for a choice has to be made correct answer. The boy speaks to himself , but then he let the girl banish and emerge from that drum, and reborn as a full blooded male. The decision was made and sinking into the boy’s mind that was the only way. And so the boy does convert and he learns how a man must act and feel. Then the image of the drowned girl that he was then helpless to defend and save continues to haunt the man. Through another variety of liquid, the persona deadens himself – his denial of the girl within him making him as hollow as the now empty drum, a ghost of a man. The boy didn’t choose to be happy and to be true to himself, and rather he had just forget whom he was in the first