When I had gone into detail discussing the Triangular Theory of Love (Sternberg), intimacy is an important piece for consummate love and a thriving relationship. Intimacy is responsible for the prosperity of my beautiful relationship. In the beginning, Intimacy, in a sexual context, was nonexistent due to the fact that we were both very young. So, we decided to break up because he was at the point where he was very much so sexually curious and I didn’t feel emotionally ready to give myself to someone. In high school, he was quite the ladies’ man and participated in various hook ups and one night stands. Based on the experiences he had with these girls, he believed that love didn’t exist but you just settled for what you wanted. For a while, he started questioning me about guys that he would hear took interest in me and indirectly always stated that he wanted me to be “untouched”, metaphorically speaking, because he wants to be the only person with me in that way. It got to the point where he would go through my phone, and I couldn’t take it anymore. I started telling him I deserved my space and for a period of time he did not trust me and I think it has more so to do with the fact that some of the girls that he had hook ups with he later found out they were in relationships when they were hooking up with him. Hence, I feel like those interactions made him question exactly what kind girl I actually was or if I was actually hiding anything from him despite our agreement. Over time, I had some issues with me medically and because of my virginity, they persisted. So, I feel like my illness gave him the answer to what I had been trying to tell him for so long and he apologized to me profusely. Keep in mind, Hook states that intimacy is that its strongest only if the following is present in a relationship: personal validation, trust