Why Shame and Addiction Pile On Each Other
Shame and addiction usually happen in a specific pattern, and here?s why. The addict discovers comfort in the addictive behavior, no matter what that behavior entails. It feels good to that person, and sometimes the individual may even feel empowered by the fact that he or she got away with engaging in bad behavior without getting caught.
Then the shame occurs when the addict feels guilty for doing something. A moral compass kicks in as the person recognizes