He had become a son to Okonkwo. Furthermore,Okonkwo participating in the death of Ikemefuna is the equivalence of helping killing his own son,which has a negative impact on his family. Ezeudu says to Okonkwo, “ That boy calls you father.”(49)This shows that Ikemefuna treats Okonkwo as he was his father. A father helping killing a son would negatively impacted the family because a father should take care of his son and not be a part of his death. A family would be even more deeply saddened and disconnected if the man who took care of the boy helped kill him. Achebe states, “Nwoye overheard it and bursted into tears.” This shows the negativity being shown in the family of Ikemefuna being taken away. Okonkwo’s decision to take part in the killing of Ikemefuna would cause much sadness in the killing. If Okonkwo hadn’t partook, there would have been less negativity in the family and they would “grieve”but Okonkwo partook in the