I, myself, find the journey of finding personal identity to be troublesome. Entering the new territory of high school, I found myself questioning, “Who am I” and “Who did I want to be.” It was difficult to answer these questions because, deep inside, I wanted to fit in more than I wanted to be my own person. I tried imitating the actions of others so that I would be accepted and discover my identity through their acceptance. It became apparent to me, though, that I could not find my identity by simply following other people’s actions. In order to find myself, I needed to follow my own path and make my own decisions. One cannot look to others to find what is in himself. Throughout the book, Tobias Wolff gradually reveals the same