Despite their heartbreak they could not openly display their emotions. They could not cry because soldiers do not cry. Such an emotional display like crying would be sign of weakness and they didn’t …show more content…
He wrote a letter to O’Brien that he put in his story entitled “Notes.” But that is all he had just one letter, but there where countless days of just driving around a lake in his home town wishing he had someone, anyone to talk to about what happened to his friend in the war (134). Bowker wasn’t like most PTSD’s who could only talk to other soldiers. He wanted everyone to know what the soldiers went through in Vietnam and he wanted to be able to do that through story telling. O’Brien also was never able to talk about what happened in the war, instead he wrote them all down. Writing his story was O’Brien’s outlet, Bowker could have had used this type of outlet, but he needed more to make the full transition into peacetime. Without this outlet, Norman Bowker killed himself. He was unable to bring his past into his present to find peace and