She describes her first love as, “He was a boy, when I was a very young girl. When I was sixteen, I made the discovery—love. It was like you suddenly turned a blinding light on something that had always been half in shadow” Blanche loved him dearly but soon she realized that the love of her life and husband didn't feel the same way. “I didn't know anything except I loved him unendurably but without being able to help him or myself. By coming suddenly into a room that I thought was empty—which wasn't empty, but had two people in it…the boy I married ad an older man who had been his friend for years….” With this incident Blanche is treated very unfairly by her husband and is heartbroken which later affects her with choosing the right man. She even loses her husband to