In a democratic society you have family from generations back and you pretty much know who they all are. Even if you have never met them you still know who they are. You always have someone to count on and talk to when you have family. But in a utopian society you have no idea who your family is. Everyone is pretty much adopted in a utopian society because the birthmothers have kids then they give the babies to the elders and nurtured and never see them again. So if you live in a utopian society you really never have any idea who your real parents and family are, But if you live in a democratic society you can spend time with your