loving themselves, willing to do what is best for their lover. And slowly he became more and more in depth and love had blossomed between the two. Heathcliff had a terrible life with being abandoned not knowing where or who his family is and coming to a strange white family’s home, where he was unwanted by both children. Until Catherine notices Heathcliff more than just a useless servant boy. And realizes he is just as selfish, conceited, and manipulative as she is herself. Which draws her to him because they are cut from the same cloth. They love for knowing who the other is and still accepts them for who they are. When a dog from the Grange attacks Cathy at her intrusion, the Lintons aid her by keeping her at the Grange for a couple of weeks. The visit allows Catherine to turn into a lady quite unlike the rude, wild, childish girl she has been with Heathcliff, and lets her form an intimate relationship with Edgar Linton, the man living at the Grange. Catherine's change is visible on her return to the Heights at Christmas time. Heathcliff, although hurt by this, remains devoted to her, forming one part of a love triangle that includes Edgar Linton, who quickly becomes a despised rival. And not to shortly after Edgar asks for Catherine’s hand in marriage. “Nelly, I [Catherine] know, you think me a selfish wretch; but did it never strike you that if Heathcliff and I married, we should be beggars? Whereas, if I marry Linton, I can aid Heathcliff to rise, and place him out of my brother’s power.” (Bontë 71) She seemingly suffers from an identity crisis, unable to choose between nature and culture; in other words, she can not choose between Edgar Linton and Heathcliff. Her decision to marry Edgar Linton over Heathcliff has been seen as a surrender to culture. “It would degrade me [Catherine] to marry Heathcliff now; so he shall never know how I love him: and that not because he's handsome, Nelly, but because he’s more myself than I am. Whatever our
souls are made of, his and mine are the same; Linton’s is as different as a moonbeam from lightning, or frost from fire” (Brontë 70). Heathcliff, eavesdropping outside, hears only that she feels that a marriage to him would "degrade" her. Immediately he embarks on a mysterious threeyear absence. His decision can be regarded as the beginning of Heathcliff's revenge on the Lintons. He returns much later as a wealthy and distinguished gentleman, to find