This chapter gives the most valuable advice for arguing effectively. This is the best chapter because it addresses that there is a “difference between fighting and arguing” and “the distinction can determine [important things like] the survival of a marriage”(15). Another interesting topic this chapter addresses is that setting a goal can help make an argument not turn into a fight. Knowing what you want out of an argument can help you work towards that and can help you organize your thoughts and what you should say to persuade others. This approach to arguing is meaningful because a lot of arguments end up turning into unnecessary fights when it could have been