For example, Trysdale does not admit to his girlfriend not having knowledge of Spanish. Trysdale accepts her admiration for his fake accomplishment of knowing Spanish and he is too proud to tell her the truth. As his friend says, the words on the cactus plant tag “ventomarme” means come and take me in English. But, Trysdale is not able to understand Spanish, he ignores the words on the tag and consider the cactus plant a refusal or betrayal from his girlfriend. Trysdale’s pride does not allow him to pay attention to the Spanish words on the tag, which stops him from understanding his girlfriend answer to his marriage