Your decisions can determine the lifestyle of the people you care for and love. Baba being a perfect gentleman that always played by the rules and was respected by everyone, turned out to be hypocrite, Babas decision strongly impacted Amir's lifestyle. Although Amir was not like his father they did have something in common, and that was harming the life of those they cared for. Amir making an uncaring decision was the cause of Ali and Hassan living an even more difficult life. When in the decision making process, always think of your friends and family and make sure your decision will impact them