For example, in the text the narrator says, that the grandmother is careful to wear her best clothes when traveling so that that “in case of an accident, anyone seeing her dead on the highway would know at once that she was a lady” (O’Connor 679). This shows us that the grandmother thinks of herself as a "lady," but places more importance on looking like one than acting like one. We see that she is obsessed with everything worldly and superficial and her primary concern is respectability, believing that by projecting herself as a lady, she will also appear as good and worthy of the respect of others. The grandmother also constantly criticizes others as the source of problems and insists that she is right. By the grandmothers conversation with Red Sam about how “people are certainly not nice like they used to be,” we see that she works hard to display her apparent goodness but also has a distorted perception of what a “good person” is. Essentially, she likes the idea of being a “good person”, but only when her peers are watching. The grandmother might never have realized the hypocrisy of her ways if she wasn’t faced with death, but because she did face death she learned the difference between what she wants to believe and the reality of things. With the grandmother telling the