We have both faced problems that we had to just stand up to and had no way of running away from. Whenever Darry’s parents died, he dropped his college scholarship to become the caretaker and guardian to Pony and Soda. As Darry got used to this climax in his life, he began to become strict between his brothers which created an even greater bond. As I face adversities and troubles throughout my life, I realize that Darry faces his adversities similar to me. I say this because he just stands up to his problems just like I do. Although we may stand up to it in slightly different ways, it is the same approach.If I don't get the start I was hoping for I am going to try the whole race until I come out in a podium position. But struggling with our problems and fighting through them helps us out a lot because it shows us what we are made of and promotes our personal growth. As Hinton said "The fight for self-preservation had hardened him against caring." Chapter 4, pg.