One of the first instances of Jeannette learning how to be self-sufficient, when Rex tried to teach her to swim, but declares, “if you don’t want to sink, you better figure out how to swim”(66). This strategy represents their parents rigid approach on life. They refuse to coddle their children, they instead bitterly challenge them. This causes their children later in life to be more independent than most people. After the whole incident at the bar when Jeannette escaped from the man who attacked her, the author used parallel structure when Rex mentions “‘It was like that time I threw you into the sulfur spring to teach you to swim,’ he said. ‘You might have been convinced you were going to drown, but I knew you'd do just fine’(213). In an over-protective environment, Jeannette may have not to been able to defend herself as well, and grows up more quickly. The price for her self-sufficiency was an unenjoyable