As Leah Paulos Author of “ The Language of Fat: Are You Constantly Criticizing Your Body” Wrote from April to May in 2015 People use the “language of fat” This is something that occurs often before events or situations in which embarrassment could occur. It is a way that not only fat but insecure people beat up on them selves and talk down on their personal appearance. Sometimes if one is mentally strong enough this is used as motivation, but in most cases this digs the person deeper into depression and insecurity. It often results in the person stress eating and putting themselves exactly where they don’t want to