Sometimes, the word “independence” becomes extreme; running your own life is great, and so is having the ability to say you achieved your success without anyone. However, in becoming so obsessed with the need to be independent, we have unlearned how to ask for help or feel worthy of receiving it. After serious deliberation and investigating, one could infer that asking for assistance is seen as being weak.
Our generation is moving into a new space and learning to ask for help and accept help; however, our elders are taking a longer time to catch up. They don't know how to ask for help, and it is a defeating feeling. They need to gain trust, and its takes longer to earn an adult’s trust than to earn a peer’s trust. This attitude is not only limited to the United States – this character flaw is also pervasive in other areas.
As she became older and blossomed into a social butterfly, she would often attend social functions. But she soon realized that she was surrounded by many men who would