Children In Sports

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At the soccer fields, a mother pulls aside her son. Then, she scolds him for kicking the ball out of the sidelines. The child then began to cry. This shows how many parents are pushing their children to be the best in a sport and taking it too far. They yell, overwork them, or set an unrealistic goal for the child. Parents should not push their children to be the best because it sets unrealistic goals, they could get injured for being overworked, or it can take the fun out of playing that sport. Some people say that pushing their children like that will help them become better and this is true but it can make them physically or mentally injured. These are not fair for the child.
The first reason why parents should not push their children to be the best is because it can set an unrealistic expectation/goal for that child and the parent and put a lot of stress onto that child. Patrick Mediate, a Physical education teacher states, “Parents tend to think everyone’s going to the Olympics.” You cannot expect everything from just one little child. Just because they are pushing the child to do better and do harder things, doesn’t mean that the child can handle it and it doesn’t mean they are going to be able to do it. It can be very hard to manage a sport and setting an unrealistic goal could make
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The article “Pushing Too Hard Too Young” says “but make it all about hard-core training and the final score, and many kids will side-line themselves.” Most children join sports for fun, not just for the winning and don’t join just to be yelled at. It also comments, “’They’re getting turned off sports at a young age—and that’s a sad tale.’ Says Faigenbaum” The more the parents push the child, the less fun it is and just becomes like a job or a workout that you have to do. Children should enjoy the sports without being yelled at. This is another reason why parents should not yell or push their children to be the