Interpersonal
Communication
Book
13th Ed.
Joseph A. DeVito
Chapter Three:
Perception and the Self in Interpersonal Communication
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Chapter 3: Perception andthe Self in Interpersonal Communication
In order to have a conversation with someone you must reveal yourself.
James Baldwin
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Chapter 3: Perception andthe Self in Interpersonal Communication
Self-Concept
Self concept: image of how you we see ourselves from 4 sources: 1.
Others’ images of you
2.
Social Comparison: comparing yourself to peers.
3.
Upward
Downward
Cultural Teachings: the way your culture instills in you your beliefs, values & attitudes.
4.
Self-evaluation: we react to our behavior, interpret or evaluate it.
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Self-Awareness—Your Four Selves
Open
Self
Open
Johari Window
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Chapter 3: Perception andthe Self in Interpersonal Communication
Aspects of Self-Awareness
Self awareness – how well you know
yourself
The Johari Model emphasizes
four aspects of self
awareness
1.
2.
3.
4.
Open – known to self and others
Blind – known to others but not self
Hidden – known to self but not others
Unknown – no one knows
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Chapter 3: Perception andthe Self in Interpersonal Communication
Self-Awareness—Your Four Selves
Open
Self
Blind
Self
Open
Blind
Johari Window
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Chapter 3: Perception andthe Self in Interpersonal Communication
Self-Awareness—Your Four Selves
Open
Self
Blind
Self
Hidden
Self
Open
Blind
Hidden
Johari Window
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Chapter 3: Perception andthe Self in Interpersonal Communication
Self-Awareness—Your Four Selves
Open
Self
Blind
Self
Hidden
Self
Unknown
Open
Blind
Hidden
Unknown
Self
Johari Window
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Increasing Self-Awareness
Ask
Yourself about Yourself
Listen
Seek
See
to Others
Information about Yourself
Your Different Selves
Increase
Your Open Self
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Self-Esteem: how valuable you think you are.
Ways to increase your self esteem
1. Attack self destructive beliefs
2. Seek out nourishing people
3. Work on projects that will result in success
4. Secure affirmation
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Chapter 3: Perception andthe Self in Interpersonal Communication
Perception in Interpersonal
Communication
Perception
is the process by which we become aware of objects, events, and people around us
Interpersonal perception is a continuous series of processes that blend into each other We separate processes into five stages for study and analysis
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Stages of Perception
1. Stimulation
Selective
to what will fulfill needs or be enjoyable
Selective
Exposure
Messages
that Confirm Beliefs
Microsoft Image
Attend
Perception
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Chapter 3: Perception andthe Self in Interpersonal Communication
Stages of Perception
2. Organization
Organization
Proximity,
similarity, contrast
Organization
Mental
By Schemata
templates, e.g. stereotypes
Organization
Action,
By Rules
By Scripts
event or procedure
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Chapter 3: Perception andthe Self in Interpersonal Communication
Stages of Perception
3. Interpretation—Evaluation
Interpretation-Evaluation
Combined because they occur simultaneously.
Influenced
by:
Experience,
needs, wants, values, beliefs
Expectations
Physical and emotional state
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Stages of Perception
4. Memory
Cognitive Tags
Filtered
Through Scripts and Schemas
Evaluations put into memory for later retrieval 15
Chapter 3: Perception andthe Self in Interpersonal Communication
Stages of Perception
5. Recall
Memory: Recall Information
Consistent with Schema
Fail to Recall Information Inconsistent with Schema
Recall Information that Drastically
Contradicts Schema
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