Interpersonal Communication Analysis

When enrolling for classes this semester, I stumbled across the course Interpersonal Communication and I thought to myself, “I’m a chemistry major, would this course honestly be beneficial in the future”. Interpersonal communication seems like a fundamental skill each of us posses. As babies, we began communicating to indicate our need for sleep, food, or even to change a dirty diaper. As we age, our communication skills develop even further and we utilize those skills to form relationships. Almost a month into the semester and I can honestly say, interpersonal communication is so much more complex. The textbook, Interpersonal Communication: Everyday Encounters defines the term as “a selective systematic process that allows people to reflect …show more content…
By following a few principles, each of us can improve the way we interrelate with others. It is crucial to understand that we are constantly communicating! Just because your lips aren’t moving does not mean individuals will not receive non-verbal cues. The way you dress, your posture, and facial gestures are major signals as well. Another fundamental principle of improving communication techniques is practicing meta-communication. Meta-communication involves communicating about communication. While that concept may sound silly, it is vital to discuss communication styles with close individuals in order to sustain relationships. The most competent communications realize that flexibility is key. You should be willing to adapt communication styles in order to fit a specific personal goal or …show more content…
I can proudly admit, I rarely communicate in the I-It method. In high school, I worked at a local Mexican restaurant that was known for its fast service. Individuals would just demand their food without ever bothering to speak to me. It felt terrible to receive that cold, impersonal attitude. From that point, I made it a priority to address work staff with care. I try to treat outer circle individuals with the upmost care without breaching into the I-Thou communication style. This course has also taught me how easily one’s self is reflected from relationships. I often find myself changing my self-impression based on who I am currently interacting with. For example, when I’m conversing with my best friend, I am confident and I stay true to who I am but with others (especially those who are more accomplished) I become insecure. I question my own achievements and try to communicate in a style that would appeal to them. Constantly changing my self worth definitely adversely effects my communication styles. This is especially more evident in the age of social media. Social media gives us a direct link of others lives which ultimately leads to comparison and the need for impression management. As much as I’d hate to admit it, I find myself wanting to appear a select way on social media. I want my followers to know that

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