#1 – Limitations.
Yes. Both sexes have an inherit right to dress how they please if it’s in the conformity of laws. For example, when I go out, the way I dress is dictated on the events in my life. Whereas, with most occasions, it’s a direct reflect of my personality and style “while still being feminine and attractive” as I always limit “what I expose.” Do I have to? No. Should I? Well in my honest opinion knowing, understanding, and ensuring …show more content…
Because of this, it should be common sense (i.e., a sensible understanding) that revealing clothes will draw unwanted attention. And here in Washington, DC, believe it or not I get hit on daily by women compared to men as there’s a large LGBTQ Community here. In fact, 3 years ago, I was groped by girls and almost date raped – if it wasn’t for my mate (i.e., a guy) who noticed my behavioral signs differed when we entered. And guess what? Guess how he knew? He too was a victim of rufilin the previous year – where his female friends took note. But because he didn’t report it, it’s not on record, and therefore it’s not a statistic. And believe me when I tell you, I have met more American Guys with similar stories that shows the crime goes both ways. Which means, are the following women Neanderthals too? Because there are a lot of successful women (e.g., Vice Presidents, Directors, Owners, and even Fulbright Scholars) out here who take things entirely too far – who are accustomed to not being told “no.” So critically speaking, would they be labeled as individuals who suffer from “mental illnesses too” and should not be allowed “to walk the streets” – as stated by …show more content…
Specifically, among victims aged 18 to 29 with two thirds being in prior relationships with the offender. Again, it’s not necessarily saying “a romantic relationship” but “a relationship.” It could be a hook-up, an intimate partner, a relative, a friend, or an acquaintance. Even if you consider uni-studies you’ll see most of us “knew of/knew the person” who sexually assaulted us. So critically speaking, rape and sexual assault can occur at any time; in any place; in many places, and to anyone. Which is why my father told me (i.e., when I was a young girl) to use common sense (i.e., on how I dress and present myself) and to always travel with friends (i.e., whether male or female). And by friends, these are people my family has met and know and “got a taste of my dad’s love for me” lol. And when it comes to going out, I never park my car or let my friends park in a dim-lighted area “because of the risks.” Like really, I don’t want to call my own a bunch of eejits or fooken bloody barmpots but I do have many of them around me. It’s almost like…” because they dress a certain way they are invincible” allowing themselves to challenge dangerous norms that we consciously know are dangerous! So, on this final note it boils down to Education and Raising Awareness (i.e., which is why I wanted you to engage back) so that people can see it goes both ways for both sexes. We change attitudes by