But why do we follow these norms? And where does this stem from? I believe that this all stems at the beginning of our lives, by being taught how to act normal through our parents and schools. At a young age, we are all taught how to properly act around people in public, and what not to do. We also learn to identify when we see others breaking norms, and can even shame those who have. We identify those who do so as outsiders and toss them to the side. As we grow up not only do we listen to our parents, but also the laws in our society. But it is much bigger than just the laws, they are simply a blueprint for what we believe is acceptable in our society. The reason behind why we do these things and follow the social norms in our societies all comes down to fear. The people who create these normalities in our society are those who hold power. We are afraid of those who hold power because if we do not do what they find acceptable, we are afraid of being ridiculed and punished. That is why we follow along with what they view as normal. But when we listen to these norms it is almost as if you break a law and what you did is illegal, while in our minds breaking a cultural norm is just as wrong as killing