It also help me get connections, let say if I fly to Thailand, I have you.” Similarly with An, coming to America from Vietnam was not easy. She was only friends with Vietnamese and Asians because she thinks they have a common understanding, but as she stepped out of her comfort zone, she grew confident. It helped her gain connections and understand people in different ways and cultures. I believe people are self-centered and unaware of different cultures in many ways, for example, most of my friends are white and they would use stereotypes to make jokes or make assumption, which is annoying “Students of color grew tired of having to serve as spokespersons for their race and constantly having to educate students who had grown up in almost exclusively white environments.” (Mullen 141). Many times my friends would ask me stupid questions or make jokes like, “Do you understand what they are talking about?” or “Why do they do that?” when they see other Asians doing something. I believe this issue would stop when they start to value and take into account the differences across the culture without