It’s our collective mental decision to treat others differently based on gender and race. “There is a common confusion between patriarchy as a kind of society and the people who participate in it” (Johnson, 1997, p. 27) We don’t even know we are doing it sometimes. Obviously white, attractive, straight men are at the top. The current social structure predicates the rules and we ourselves are the enforcers bullying people as kids if they don’t adhere to these rules. (Sharp patriarchy) We even turn on those of us who are different as adults. When we are adults the people who get the benefits are almost always receiving rewards for just being born that way in society. Our families and businesses are responsible for instructing the rules. Anywhere you go will affect your social behavior and experience. The patriarchy is almost a hive mind like entity in some