My very first crucible happened when I was only five years old. On October 12th 1998, my little brother, Tyler, was born, yet I hardly knew the life changing events that were about to happen on the day of his birth. From that day on I took care of my brother as if he was my own and today he is my best friend. He has changed my life growing up in such positive ways. In high-school I’d always ask myself who I wanted to be for him. I wanted to be the positive role model in his life that he needed. From this he made me more responsible, positive, and caring for others. As well, now that he is grown and seventeen, he has taught me things! Tyler has especially taught me how to open up to people and see others for more than what we can see. He is an amazing role model for myself now and looking back on his birth he has changed and helped me grow in such positive ways which encounters all what a crucible is