Hard Approach Research Paper

Hard Approach vs Easy Approach vs Natural Approach

Note: Before anyone believes that this is an attack on their style of approaching, I believe it all exists on a spectrum. And I definitely don't operate in my ideal style all the time.

I think everyone knows that most people who study pickup have something off about them. You can just tell when you see them. Not only that, but everyone who calls out the pickup scene as going about it wrong also appears to have something off about them (but then again everyone who acts and looks like a PUA claims not to be one nowadays).

Seems like the only normal people out there have nothing to do with, or don't care about, the seduction scene. So how do they approach and get girls?

And have you considered …show more content…
Easy Approach

Easy approach is about only going after the girls who want you.

You wait for the girl to drop a hint and then go after her. You don't waste time with girls who don't drop hints.

And the fear is substantially lower since you know it is pretty much a sure thing.

Seems to be the perfect cure for the people failing at the hard approach method.

Look at it from their perspective. Girls like boys as much as boys like girls. Girls like sex as much as boys like sex (and how often do you think about sex?).

Think about it, if you saw a girl who you really wanted to sleep with and then she came on to you, directly or indirectly, and led the interaction to the bedroom. I imagine you'll go for it without hesitation.

Luckily for us guys, most girls broadcast their interests. We just have to take action.

So when a girl stares at you, gets in your personal space, goes out of her way to invite you to things, or brushes up against you, she really wants you and will easily give it up if you go after her (as long as you don't do anything really weird).

But the problem here is the guy has zero standards...

That's not true, you are only going after girls you find physically …show more content…
Plus, taking risks is a great way to feel alive.

And we don't take enough risks in our lives!

This is why being crippled by fear is a disease of western civilization, we are so used to being comfortable that we are scared to get uncomfortable. But getting uncomfortable makes us feel alive!

(Note: If you are interested in finding different ways of pushing yourself, check out this article.)

And the best part is, since you are coming across these girls while doing your mission, you usually get more time with them, rather than a casual encounter, so you get a better chance to emotionally bond with them. Then you won't have to worry about that emptiness.

Okay, one last question, what kind of mission should I do?

I don't know. What do you like to do? What is a lot of fun for you? What can you do to become more social? If you don't know what your mission is, then finding out your mission is your mission.

(I know you guys will want some more guidance here, so check out these articles: here and here.)

So what do you want: an unhealthy fascination of approaching women that gets you nowhere, all the sex you ever wanted but only to feel empty inside, or to live your own adventure and let her join you for the

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