I joined theatre, despite the stigma that there is with boys and acting, and I really enjoyed it. I learned new lessons each time I portrayed new characters, and I learned to be exceptionally confident. I even got a job and started to able to buy things with my own money, which gave me a sense of independence. Then, one night I came home from work and my mother was gone. With no word, my mother had abandoned me. I stayed with my aunt for a few months and eventually moved into my father's house. At the same time I moved into my father's, he was going through a divorce with his second wife. After living in my father's house for two months, we moved out, leaving his second wife behind. All of this change and movement was in a short amount of time, a little under a year, and it left me with much confusion and sadness. My mother had abandoned me and I had moved multiple times all while dealing with the pressures of school and work. After junior year, things began to settle down again, and since then, everything has been