When a woman committed to marriage, her property rights were taken away and her husband gained full control over them. In Abigail Adam’s eyes this was extremely unfair and unjust. In the book, Abigail Adams a Revolutionary Woman, Jacqueline Ching states, “After marriage… a woman did not even have the rights over her own children.” Once a man and a woman got married, the wife’s children, land, and even herself were now the husband’s property. Abigail Adams wrote to John often discussing her views on marriage and the family. She believed that women should not be happy being considered property of their husbands and treated as servants. Women have the right to assist in decision making when it comes to the family. The wives of the household are not servants and do not deserve to be treated like one. Many women that lived in the 1800s were forced to cook, clean, and nurture the children. They had many household chores and responsibilities, yet were still treated poorly. Although he usually did not take her pleas into account, future government officials listened to her and applied her thoughts to help America grow