Though Helga describes her mother as a beautiful woman, she seems to feel that she felt burdened by her own daughter. Helga’s view of herself as a burden comes up when she is reflecting upon her childhood trip to Copenhagen, where she wonders why her mother had not let her stay, because “it seemed that it would have been the solution to all their problems, her mother’s, her stepfather’s, her own” (51). This idea progresses even further when she rejects Axel Olsen’s marriage proposal, telling him “‘We can’t tell, you know; if we were married, you might come to be ashamed of me, to hate me, to hate all dark people. My mother did that’”(82). Helga’s feeling that her mother was troubled by her, did not want her, or even hated her because of the discomfort caused by having a biracial child could certainly affect Helga’s views of her place not only within her white family, but also her place in white society while causing her own self hatred. Throughout the entirety of Quicksand, there is an obvious disconnect between Helga and whatever society she is immersed in at the moment.There are many factors that play into Helga’s struggle to claim her racial and social identity, but it seems very clear that Helga’s inability to fully connect and bond with either of her parents fully is an important factor that alienates